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Children, you know who you are, if you are reading this then you have started to do that which I hoped you would do for years. You will maybe have lots of questions to ask and may have been told things that make you wonder about their truthfulness.
I have written this web page to make things easier for you. I want you to know that I tried hard, very hard to be a normal dad, but this was denied me. I know the time we did have was brief and it was hard for you. I understand this. I know that you both love your daddy and that had you both been given a say you would have wanted me in your lives. I know this. All I have for now is this web page to hope that you will find it and hope some more that you will come back to your Dad. It will be updated from time to time, as and when needed. To continue your quest for knowledge you can call me on this number 07736 157 530. Or you can write to me on mostynwitham@gmail.com or mostynwitham@hotmail.com If you want to know more about your dad you can look at the link opposite.
I will be waiting for you and love you both dearly, Dad xxxxxxxxxxxxx
28/10/08 At the weekend I tried to contact your mummy to tell her that you great auntie Mildred was dying in hospital and that she would have loved to speak to you. Mildred has always loved you both, sent money on your birthdays and at Christmas. I suggested that I call your mummy's mobile whilst we were there so that you could say hello to her, it would have made her day as she always asks about you both. She has an inoperable brain tumour, the doctors say that she only has days or weeks left. Mildred is 88. I hope that you remember her children. I did not get a reply to my suggestion from your mummy and the next day she had changed her number. I did send the same message to your grandma but I did not get a reply from her either.
Love you both, Dad xxxxxx
4/11/08 These are some photos of Kelly and I at a night out on Haloween!
15/12/08 Hi Kids!
I just wanted to tell you that your Great aunt Mildred passed away this Sunday gone (14th December 2008) at 7.30 in the morning. She did so want to see you both before she passed. It is a shame. Well, as you can see by the date it is near to Christmas and Daddy has had a hard time trying to think of what to buy you both. You see I don't know what kind of things you like as I have not spoken to you both for so long (I miss both you so much). Anyhow, I got you both the things that I think you will find usefull for your ages. R, I bought you this make up set because I know that you love to dress up, and M, I bought you this wonderful toy crane; I could not believe how fantastic it is with all the lights and sounds and movement. I hope you both get lots out of them. As you can see I have taken these photos to remind you both as I know that it will probably be many years before you see this web page.
19/12/08 We took you presents to your grandma's today, and we were surprised as they asked kelly and I in to the house. We told them to tell you that your great aunt Mildred had died and they said that they would tell you both. Also we asked that they ask your mummy to let you phone your daddy on Christmas day.
25/12/08 We did not get a phone call from you both today. R & M, I know that this has nothing to do with you both of you and that if you had been given the chance you would have called your daddy to tell me what sort of Christmas day you both had.
24/02/09 Happy Birthday dear Son M. I sent you a card which should have arrived with you today M, I sent one to your Grandma as well in case you did not get it at home. I miss you so much I can not tell you. It is truly a crime that you are being kept from me and knowing me, but I guess you will find it all out in time. As for me it is important that you eventually know the truth, know how much Daddy tried to keep things normal and to keep you in my life and me in yours. You are missing out on so much it will take a lot of catching up. Never think that I have given up on you and R - I never did, quite the opposite, I fought hard for you and M, but it was not to be. You see I had to fight a system that at this time does not make much provision for dads. All I can hope is that you never go through the same, and that if you do by then things will have changed. I have yours and R's photo with me always - close to my heart. I know now where you live (as I need to) and if ever the need arises I can be there for you. Every day I hope and pray that you will, when the time has come, look me up. All the time I strive to make it easy for you and R to do this.
I do so much hope you have a wonderful birthday and spare a moment to think of your Daddy who loves you so much. Happy Birthday M. I love you.
17/6/09 Just thinking about both of you as I do every day. Miss you both so much. xxxxxx
24/7/09 I wanted to tell you about the trip that Kelly & I took to New York earlier this year. We went for a week and stayed in a beautiful luxury hotel right in the middle of Manhattan. It is a wonderful place and not at all how I expected it to be. We went to all the famous places.
I am including some photos, I will tell you more abou this and more when I see you both.
I have written this web page to make things easier for you. I want you to know that I tried hard, very hard to be a normal dad, but this was denied me. I know the time we did have was brief and it was hard for you. I understand this. I know that you both love your daddy and that had you both been given a say you would have wanted me in your lives. I know this. All I have for now is this web page to hope that you will find it and hope some more that you will come back to your Dad. It will be updated from time to time, as and when needed. To continue your quest for knowledge you can call me on this number 07736 157 530. Or you can write to me on mostynwitham@gmail.com or mostynwitham@hotmail.com If you want to know more about your dad you can look at the link opposite.
I will be waiting for you and love you both dearly, Dad xxxxxxxxxxxxx
28/10/08 At the weekend I tried to contact your mummy to tell her that you great auntie Mildred was dying in hospital and that she would have loved to speak to you. Mildred has always loved you both, sent money on your birthdays and at Christmas. I suggested that I call your mummy's mobile whilst we were there so that you could say hello to her, it would have made her day as she always asks about you both. She has an inoperable brain tumour, the doctors say that she only has days or weeks left. Mildred is 88. I hope that you remember her children. I did not get a reply to my suggestion from your mummy and the next day she had changed her number. I did send the same message to your grandma but I did not get a reply from her either.
Love you both, Dad xxxxxx
4/11/08 These are some photos of Kelly and I at a night out on Haloween!
15/12/08 Hi Kids!
I just wanted to tell you that your Great aunt Mildred passed away this Sunday gone (14th December 2008) at 7.30 in the morning. She did so want to see you both before she passed. It is a shame. Well, as you can see by the date it is near to Christmas and Daddy has had a hard time trying to think of what to buy you both. You see I don't know what kind of things you like as I have not spoken to you both for so long (I miss both you so much). Anyhow, I got you both the things that I think you will find usefull for your ages. R, I bought you this make up set because I know that you love to dress up, and M, I bought you this wonderful toy crane; I could not believe how fantastic it is with all the lights and sounds and movement. I hope you both get lots out of them. As you can see I have taken these photos to remind you both as I know that it will probably be many years before you see this web page.
19/12/08 We took you presents to your grandma's today, and we were surprised as they asked kelly and I in to the house. We told them to tell you that your great aunt Mildred had died and they said that they would tell you both. Also we asked that they ask your mummy to let you phone your daddy on Christmas day.
25/12/08 We did not get a phone call from you both today. R & M, I know that this has nothing to do with you both of you and that if you had been given the chance you would have called your daddy to tell me what sort of Christmas day you both had.
24/02/09 Happy Birthday dear Son M. I sent you a card which should have arrived with you today M, I sent one to your Grandma as well in case you did not get it at home. I miss you so much I can not tell you. It is truly a crime that you are being kept from me and knowing me, but I guess you will find it all out in time. As for me it is important that you eventually know the truth, know how much Daddy tried to keep things normal and to keep you in my life and me in yours. You are missing out on so much it will take a lot of catching up. Never think that I have given up on you and R - I never did, quite the opposite, I fought hard for you and M, but it was not to be. You see I had to fight a system that at this time does not make much provision for dads. All I can hope is that you never go through the same, and that if you do by then things will have changed. I have yours and R's photo with me always - close to my heart. I know now where you live (as I need to) and if ever the need arises I can be there for you. Every day I hope and pray that you will, when the time has come, look me up. All the time I strive to make it easy for you and R to do this.
I do so much hope you have a wonderful birthday and spare a moment to think of your Daddy who loves you so much. Happy Birthday M. I love you.
17/6/09 Just thinking about both of you as I do every day. Miss you both so much. xxxxxx
24/7/09 I wanted to tell you about the trip that Kelly & I took to New York earlier this year. We went for a week and stayed in a beautiful luxury hotel right in the middle of Manhattan. It is a wonderful place and not at all how I expected it to be. We went to all the famous places.
I am including some photos, I will tell you more abou this and more when I see you both.
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