Dear Children, I guess that it will be a long time till I see you both again. I now realise that the lies your mummy has told of me are very far reaching, even your grandma can not see the truth in spite of that which is put under her very nose which proves the contrary!
Your grandma told me that she does not want me to bring you any more presents in case you are there when I bring them. Well, I find this staggering. So I am not sure what to do.
I do so wish that your mummy had not told your grandma so many lies for so long because it now means that you get no presents.
What I may do is still buy you both the presents but keep them with me until the day when I can give them to you both in person.
Don't worry though, I will of course post the photos of your brother / sister on this blog so hat you can see him / her. By the way children my mum and dad, Your Grandma and Grandad Sent you money again this year via registered post. I tell you this in case you did not get it.
Saturday, 26 December 2009
Friday, 25 December 2009
Christmas Day 2009
Merry Christmas Ruby & Miles!!! Ruby, you have a wonderful make up selection for you to experiment with and also a fantastic Golden Book of Cookie Recipes. Miles, you got a Skeleton Book and a Doctor Who Dialek Toy. I really hope that you like them both. Kelly and I have just got back form dropping them off with your grandparents but I think you must have been there as they were not very nice to Kelly and me. I think your mummy has been telling them that I do not pay any money to her to help look after you both. But, I want you to know that I have and I always will as I proved this day to your grandma. Do not let mummy tell you that Daddy does not give money - I can provide you with proof that I always have done.
Kelly told your grandma that you are going to soon have a baby brother or sister!! That's right, Kelly is going to have a baby, that means that you both will have a new brother or sister. Daddy is so excited.
Well that's about it for now both of you, I will be back in touch again soon.
Love you both,
Daddy XXXXX
Kelly told your grandma that you are going to soon have a baby brother or sister!! That's right, Kelly is going to have a baby, that means that you both will have a new brother or sister. Daddy is so excited.
Well that's about it for now both of you, I will be back in touch again soon.
Love you both,
Daddy XXXXX
Tuesday, 15 September 2009
Happy Birthday Ruby. XXXXX
Today is your Birthday sweetheart. I hope you had a wonderful time. I have thought about you all day, not a moment went by without you in my mind. Please give Miles a big kiss for me and tell him I am thinking about him too.
I hope that you got your card. I have included a photo of it in case you didn't.
The photo on the card is you when you were tiny. I used to sit and watch you while you were 
sleeping because you looked like an angel; sometimes I took photos of you so that the memories would last. I look at this photo many times you know.
I love you Ruby and I will always.
Love from Daddy, XXXXXXXXXXX
Thursday, 10 September 2009
Ruby & Miles Are Loved All Over The World!
Ruby & Miles, I so wish that you could be reading this right now because then you would know the insane support that Your daddy is getting right now and you would know how much this has lifted my spirits. A very important musician called Wayne Shorter told all the people he knows about you both and how he wishes things were not as they are right now.
Look below at some of the things his friends have said; one nice lady has written you a Poem Ruby, and that is near the end.
Love you both. Daddy XXXXX
Donna Christian-Bruce
That's so sad.
Yesterday at 6:36pm ·
Jim Gelcer
Where do you find this stuff Wayne?
Yesterday at 6:37pm ·
Wayne Shorter
his daughter is only 10
Yesterday at 6:37pm ·
Marian Octubre
I like this history, but is a little sad.
Yesterday at 6:39pm ·
Jim Gelcer
Actually it is very sad. I just read his blog on his son's birthday and almost cried.
Yesterday at 6:47pm ·
Martie Vandry
I hope that Ruby will know how loved she truly is by her dad.
Yesterday at 6:58pm ·
Rebecca Hope
Ruby, my dear! ps. great to hear you speak at the Jazz Tent and hear your performance later...
Yesterday at 6:59pm ·
Grange Rutan
This is your Ruby My Dear and I treasure your exquisite taste; as I only sing for famous people I will sing with a warm battery mic, a song, just for you as you put that beauty around my neck...merci beaucoup.Ruby
Yesterday at 7:22pm ·
Wayne Shorter
his story touched my heart too Jim
Yesterday at 11:37pm ·
Ken Eisner
Is there any way people could follow up on this, if they were able?
20 hours ago ·
Debra Ryan
Shedding a touching tear ... :(
19 hours ago ·
Debra Ryan
This Man is so brave too not bottling up his emotions so he can Journey on the best way he can... Mr Shorter I just wrote this is for you to give Mostyn if you like... :) Debra Forever
Ruby...Ruby I Love You
And Ruby I Pray...
Read MoreThat God Will Give Me A break
One DayTo See you
Be Near you
Hold You Again Ruby
I love You
The Truth Will Remain!DR/10/09/09
19 hours ago ·
Wayne Shorter
Debra, that's truly beautiful. Be sure that this will get to him.WS.
10 hours ago ·
Debra Ryan
:) Thank You Mr Shorter.
10 hours ago ·
Look below at some of the things his friends have said; one nice lady has written you a Poem Ruby, and that is near the end.
Love you both. Daddy XXXXX
Donna Christian-Bruce
That's so sad.
Yesterday at 6:36pm ·
Jim Gelcer
Where do you find this stuff Wayne?
Yesterday at 6:37pm ·
Wayne Shorter
his daughter is only 10
Yesterday at 6:37pm ·
Marian Octubre
I like this history, but is a little sad.
Yesterday at 6:39pm ·
Jim Gelcer
Actually it is very sad. I just read his blog on his son's birthday and almost cried.
Yesterday at 6:47pm ·
Martie Vandry
I hope that Ruby will know how loved she truly is by her dad.
Yesterday at 6:58pm ·
Rebecca Hope
Ruby, my dear! ps. great to hear you speak at the Jazz Tent and hear your performance later...
Yesterday at 6:59pm ·
Grange Rutan
This is your Ruby My Dear and I treasure your exquisite taste; as I only sing for famous people I will sing with a warm battery mic, a song, just for you as you put that beauty around my neck...merci beaucoup.Ruby
Yesterday at 7:22pm ·
Wayne Shorter
his story touched my heart too Jim
Yesterday at 11:37pm ·
Ken Eisner
Is there any way people could follow up on this, if they were able?
20 hours ago ·
Debra Ryan
Shedding a touching tear ... :(
19 hours ago ·
Debra Ryan
This Man is so brave too not bottling up his emotions so he can Journey on the best way he can... Mr Shorter I just wrote this is for you to give Mostyn if you like... :) Debra Forever
Ruby...Ruby I Love You
And Ruby I Pray...
Read MoreThat God Will Give Me A break
One DayTo See you
Be Near you
Hold You Again Ruby
I love You
The Truth Will Remain!DR/10/09/09
19 hours ago ·
Wayne Shorter
Debra, that's truly beautiful. Be sure that this will get to him.WS.
10 hours ago ·
Debra Ryan
:) Thank You Mr Shorter.
10 hours ago ·
Wednesday, 9 September 2009
Ruby's Birthday
Hi Ruby, it's your birthday next week!! Today I went to the shops to look for a nice gift for you and I found a lovely necklace with a ruby pendant. I have taken a photo of it so that if for some reason you don't get it you can at least see the intention.
The lady in the jewellers asked me how old you was and when it was your birthday. I showed her a photo of you that I keep in my wallet. She was very sad that you did not see your daddy like other children. I told her that I was sad too and that there was nothing I could do when people tell lies to a judge.
But don't worry, I will one day give you your presents instead of to your grandma in Gilberdyke. Your other grandma and Grandad in Derbyshire miss you both terribly as they always have and have asked me to send you their love.
I will write again to you on your birthday.
I love you and miss you both. Love Daddy x x x x x x x x x
Friday, 14 August 2009
Thursday, 30 July 2009
Sunday, 26 July 2009
Friday, 24 July 2009
Migrated From Another Blog!
Children, you know who you are, if you are reading this then you have started to do that which I hoped you would do for years. You will maybe have lots of questions to ask and may have been told things that make you wonder about their truthfulness.
I have written this web page to make things easier for you. I want you to know that I tried hard, very hard to be a normal dad, but this was denied me. I know the time we did have was brief and it was hard for you. I understand this. I know that you both love your daddy and that had you both been given a say you would have wanted me in your lives. I know this. All I have for now is this web page to hope that you will find it and hope some more that you will come back to your Dad. It will be updated from time to time, as and when needed. To continue your quest for knowledge you can call me on this number 07736 157 530. Or you can write to me on mostynwitham@gmail.com or mostynwitham@hotmail.com If you want to know more about your dad you can look at the link opposite.
I will be waiting for you and love you both dearly, Dad xxxxxxxxxxxxx
28/10/08 At the weekend I tried to contact your mummy to tell her that you great auntie Mildred was dying in hospital and that she would have loved to speak to you. Mildred has always loved you both, sent money on your birthdays and at Christmas. I suggested that I call your mummy's mobile whilst we were there so that you could say hello to her, it would have made her day as she always asks about you both. She has an inoperable brain tumour, the doctors say that she only has days or weeks left. Mildred is 88. I hope that you remember her children. I did not get a reply to my suggestion from your mummy and the next day she had changed her number. I did send the same message to your grandma but I did not get a reply from her either.
Love you both, Dad xxxxxx
4/11/08 These are some photos of Kelly and I at a night out on Haloween!
15/12/08 Hi Kids!
I just wanted to tell you that your Great aunt Mildred passed away this Sunday gone (14th December 2008) at 7.30 in the morning. She did so want to see you both before she passed. It is a shame. Well, as you can see by the date it is near to Christmas and Daddy has had a hard time trying to think of what to buy you both. You see I don't know what kind of things you like as I have not spoken to you both for so long (I miss both you so much). Anyhow, I got you both the things that I think you will find usefull for your ages. R, I bought you this make up set because I know that you love to dress up, and M, I bought you this wonderful toy crane; I could not believe how fantastic it is with all the lights and sounds and movement. I hope you both get lots out of them. As you can see I have taken these photos to remind you both as I know that it will probably be many years before you see this web page.
19/12/08 We took you presents to your grandma's today, and we were surprised as they asked kelly and I in to the house. We told them to tell you that your great aunt Mildred had died and they said that they would tell you both. Also we asked that they ask your mummy to let you phone your daddy on Christmas day.
25/12/08 We did not get a phone call from you both today. R & M, I know that this has nothing to do with you both of you and that if you had been given the chance you would have called your daddy to tell me what sort of Christmas day you both had.
24/02/09 Happy Birthday dear Son M. I sent you a card which should have arrived with you today M, I sent one to your Grandma as well in case you did not get it at home. I miss you so much I can not tell you. It is truly a crime that you are being kept from me and knowing me, but I guess you will find it all out in time. As for me it is important that you eventually know the truth, know how much Daddy tried to keep things normal and to keep you in my life and me in yours. You are missing out on so much it will take a lot of catching up. Never think that I have given up on you and R - I never did, quite the opposite, I fought hard for you and M, but it was not to be. You see I had to fight a system that at this time does not make much provision for dads. All I can hope is that you never go through the same, and that if you do by then things will have changed. I have yours and R's photo with me always - close to my heart. I know now where you live (as I need to) and if ever the need arises I can be there for you. Every day I hope and pray that you will, when the time has come, look me up. All the time I strive to make it easy for you and R to do this.
I do so much hope you have a wonderful birthday and spare a moment to think of your Daddy who loves you so much. Happy Birthday M. I love you.
17/6/09 Just thinking about both of you as I do every day. Miss you both so much. xxxxxx
24/7/09 I wanted to tell you about the trip that Kelly & I took to New York earlier this year. We went for a week and stayed in a beautiful luxury hotel right in the middle of Manhattan. It is a wonderful place and not at all how I expected it to be. We went to all the famous places.
I am including some photos, I will tell you more abou this and more when I see you both.
I have written this web page to make things easier for you. I want you to know that I tried hard, very hard to be a normal dad, but this was denied me. I know the time we did have was brief and it was hard for you. I understand this. I know that you both love your daddy and that had you both been given a say you would have wanted me in your lives. I know this. All I have for now is this web page to hope that you will find it and hope some more that you will come back to your Dad. It will be updated from time to time, as and when needed. To continue your quest for knowledge you can call me on this number 07736 157 530. Or you can write to me on mostynwitham@gmail.com or mostynwitham@hotmail.com If you want to know more about your dad you can look at the link opposite.
I will be waiting for you and love you both dearly, Dad xxxxxxxxxxxxx
28/10/08 At the weekend I tried to contact your mummy to tell her that you great auntie Mildred was dying in hospital and that she would have loved to speak to you. Mildred has always loved you both, sent money on your birthdays and at Christmas. I suggested that I call your mummy's mobile whilst we were there so that you could say hello to her, it would have made her day as she always asks about you both. She has an inoperable brain tumour, the doctors say that she only has days or weeks left. Mildred is 88. I hope that you remember her children. I did not get a reply to my suggestion from your mummy and the next day she had changed her number. I did send the same message to your grandma but I did not get a reply from her either.
Love you both, Dad xxxxxx
4/11/08 These are some photos of Kelly and I at a night out on Haloween!
15/12/08 Hi Kids!
I just wanted to tell you that your Great aunt Mildred passed away this Sunday gone (14th December 2008) at 7.30 in the morning. She did so want to see you both before she passed. It is a shame. Well, as you can see by the date it is near to Christmas and Daddy has had a hard time trying to think of what to buy you both. You see I don't know what kind of things you like as I have not spoken to you both for so long (I miss both you so much). Anyhow, I got you both the things that I think you will find usefull for your ages. R, I bought you this make up set because I know that you love to dress up, and M, I bought you this wonderful toy crane; I could not believe how fantastic it is with all the lights and sounds and movement. I hope you both get lots out of them. As you can see I have taken these photos to remind you both as I know that it will probably be many years before you see this web page.
19/12/08 We took you presents to your grandma's today, and we were surprised as they asked kelly and I in to the house. We told them to tell you that your great aunt Mildred had died and they said that they would tell you both. Also we asked that they ask your mummy to let you phone your daddy on Christmas day.
25/12/08 We did not get a phone call from you both today. R & M, I know that this has nothing to do with you both of you and that if you had been given the chance you would have called your daddy to tell me what sort of Christmas day you both had.
24/02/09 Happy Birthday dear Son M. I sent you a card which should have arrived with you today M, I sent one to your Grandma as well in case you did not get it at home. I miss you so much I can not tell you. It is truly a crime that you are being kept from me and knowing me, but I guess you will find it all out in time. As for me it is important that you eventually know the truth, know how much Daddy tried to keep things normal and to keep you in my life and me in yours. You are missing out on so much it will take a lot of catching up. Never think that I have given up on you and R - I never did, quite the opposite, I fought hard for you and M, but it was not to be. You see I had to fight a system that at this time does not make much provision for dads. All I can hope is that you never go through the same, and that if you do by then things will have changed. I have yours and R's photo with me always - close to my heart. I know now where you live (as I need to) and if ever the need arises I can be there for you. Every day I hope and pray that you will, when the time has come, look me up. All the time I strive to make it easy for you and R to do this.
I do so much hope you have a wonderful birthday and spare a moment to think of your Daddy who loves you so much. Happy Birthday M. I love you.
17/6/09 Just thinking about both of you as I do every day. Miss you both so much. xxxxxx
24/7/09 I wanted to tell you about the trip that Kelly & I took to New York earlier this year. We went for a week and stayed in a beautiful luxury hotel right in the middle of Manhattan. It is a wonderful place and not at all how I expected it to be. We went to all the famous places.
I am including some photos, I will tell you more abou this and more when I see you both.
Monday, 2 March 2009
Miles Birthday
24/02/09 Happy Birthday dear Son M. I sent you a card which should have arrived with you today M, I sent one to your Grandma as well in case you did not get it at home. I miss you so much I can not tell you. It is truly a crime that you are being kept from me and knowing me, but I guess you will find it all out in time. As for me it is important that you eventually know the truth, know how much Daddy tried to keep things normal and to keep you in my life and me in yours. You are missing out on so much it will take a lot of catching up. Never think that I have given up on you and R - I never did, quite the opposite, I fought hard for you and M, but it was not to be. You see I had to fight a system that at this time does not make much provision for dads. All I can hope is that you never go through the same, and that if you do by then things will have changed. I have yours and R's photo with me always - close to my heart. I know now where you live (as I need to) and if ever the need arises I can be there for you. Every day I hope and pray that you will, when the time has come, look me up. All the time I strive to make it easy for you and R to do this.
I do so much hope you have a wonderful birthday and spare a moment to think of your Daddy who loves you so much. Happy Birthday M. I love you.
I do so much hope you have a wonderful birthday and spare a moment to think of your Daddy who loves you so much. Happy Birthday M. I love you.
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